Wanita
1- Wanita auratnya lebih susah dijaga berbanding lelaki.
2- Wanita perlu meminta izin dari suaminya apabila mahu keluar rumah tetapi tidak sebaliknya.
3- Wanita saksinya kurang berbanding lelaki.
4- Wanita menerima pusaka kurang dari lelaki.
5- Wanita perlu menghadapi kesusahan mengandung dan melahirkan anak.
6- Wanita wajib taat kepada suaminya tetapi suami tak perlu taat pada
isterinya.
7- Talak terletak di tangan suami dan bukan isteri.
8- Wanita kurang dalam beribadat kerana masalah haid dan nifas yg tak ada
pada lelaki.
Pernahkah kita lihat sebaliknya??
- Benda yg mahal harganya akan dijaga dan dibelai serta disimpan di tempat
yg tersorok dan selamat. Sudah pasti intan permata tidak akan dibiar
bersepah-sepah bukan? Itulah bandingannya dengan seorang wanita.
- Wanita perlu taat kpd suami tetapi lelaki wajib taat kepada ibunya 3 kali
lebih utama dari bapanya. Bukankah ibu adalah seorang wanita?
- Wanita menerima pusaka kurang dari lelaki tetapi harta itu menjadi milik
peribadinya dan tidak perlu diserahkan kepada suaminya. Manakala lelaki
menerima pusaka perlu menggunakan hartanya utk menyara isteri dan anak
anak.
- Wanita perlu bersusah-payah mengandung dan melahirkan anak tetapi setiap saat dia didoakan oleh segala haiwan, malaikat dan seluruh makhluk ALLAH dimukabumi ini dan matinya jika kerana melahirkan adalah syahid kecil.
Manakala dosanya diampun ALLAH (dosa kecil).
- Di akhirat kelak, seorang lelaki akan dipertanggungjawabkan terhadap 4
wanita iaitu isterinya, ibunya, anak perempuannya dan saudara perempuannya.
Manakala seorang wanita pula, tanggungjawab terhadapnya ditanggung oleh 4 org lelaki iaitu suaminya, ayahnya, anak lelakinya dan saudara lelakinya.
- Seorang wanita boleh memasuki pintu Syurga melalui mana-mana pintu Syurgayg disukainya cukup dgn 4 syarat sahaja iaitu Sembahyang 5 waktu, Puasa dibulan Ramadhan, Taat suaminya dan Menjaga kehormatannya (betulkan jika saya tersilap).
- Seorang lelaki perlu pergi berjihad fisabilillah tetapi wanita jika taat
akan suaminya serta menunaikan tanggungjawabnya kepada ALLAH akan turut menerima pahala seperti pahala org pergi berperang fisabilillah tanpa perlu mengangkat senjata.
MasyaALLAH... sayangnya ALLAH pada wanita ... .kan?
For my beloved children, my means of leaving the Reminder of the Ultimate reference and Knowledge of the Al-Mighty Allah swt. Guidelines to a peaceful mind, a joyful heart and a harmonious life. May it be the guide and torch for a brighter path in your life forever eternity. Amin.
Showing posts with label women. Show all posts
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Sunday, July 12, 2009
Why Women Cry...
A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?" "Because I'm a woman," she told him..
"I don't understand," he said. His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."
Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"
"All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.
The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.
Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?"
God said:
"When I made the woman she had to be special.
I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world,
yet gentle enough to give comfort.
I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.
I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.
I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.
I gave her strength to carry he! r husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.
I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.
And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."
"You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.
The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."
Please send this to five beautiful women you know today. You will boost another woman's self-esteem! Send it to every man, so he can understand!
"I don't understand," he said. His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."
Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"
"All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.
The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.
Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?"
God said:
"When I made the woman she had to be special.
I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world,
yet gentle enough to give comfort.
I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.
I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.
I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.
I gave her strength to carry he! r husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.
I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.
And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."
"You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.
The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."
Please send this to five beautiful women you know today. You will boost another woman's self-esteem! Send it to every man, so he can understand!
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